For a moment, I considered leaving him as just another ghost of hookups past.

I had hesitated before telling him I was a bottom.

It’s invalidating, manipulative and can feel deeply objectifying.

‘There’s nothing a random person on the internet can say that’s gonna undermine who I am.’

You are a work in progress.

You are a work in progress.

It’s heartbreaking how prevalent the bullying of trans people has become.

In 2020, more than 100 municipalities – about a third of Poland – had been declared as ‘LGBT-free zones’.

‘I usually quickly forget about my time spent in saunas, but there’s a guy I can’t stop thinking about.’